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Electronic Trail Reveals Lawyer Resumé Lies, Costing Job Opportunities

Posted Sep 22, 2009 7:36 AM CST
By Debra Cassens Weiss

Wrong dates or an inflated work history has cost more than one lawyer a shot at a new job.

Legal recruiters Deborah Ben-Canaan and Martha Fay Africa say resumé fraud is easier to catch in the electronic age, according to their article in the Recorder. “The old paper trail has become a much more easily followed cybertrail,” they write.

“Candidates may think that stretching the truth a little bit is not a big deal, but it is,” the article says. “We have heard lawyers tell us that they only worked in a job for a few months, so they left it off their resumé, or they had a bad experience in that job, so it was left off the resumé and then dates were stretched to cover any resumé ‘gaps.’ This is deceit, plain and simple.”

Africa and Ben-Canaan say they decline to represent lawyers if they discover their resumé fraud. They cite these recent examples:

• A candidate was a finalist for a general counsel position until a review revealed different law firms on different resumés, inconsistent employment dates, and a wrong date for passing the bar.

• A candidate who wanted an in-house position added a year onto his law firm experience by failing to mention that the year was spent as a summer clerk, and didn't disclose that another job was an internship.

• A solo practitioner who did work for a computer company falsely claimed he was an in-house counsel for the company.

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1.

Anon
Sep 22, 2009 9:19 AM CST

Once again, the legal search industry likes to have it both ways.

Just about every headhunter I’ve ever worked with has urged me to be far more aggressive with my resume than I’m comfortable with.  There are some I’ve declined to work with for that very reason.

Perhaps some of the candidates described finally gave in to their constant nagging.

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Anonymous Contract Lawyer
Sep 22, 2009 10:33 AM CST

I too have been surprised by how temp agencies recommend putting contract jobs on my resume. Some say to put the law firm and not the temp agency. Others say doing so is deceptive as I did not work for the law firm.
I also find that my 2 graduate degrees creates more problems than benefits with legal employers. Having a PhD and MA gives me the impression of being theoretical, over-qualified, and too expensive. As a result, I often leave off my graduate degrees and have multiple versions of my resume for each agency. Unethical? No more so than law firms hiring people and then delaying start dates.

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Crab Apples
Sep 22, 2009 10:52 AM CST

I find it curious how the ABA posts an article about unemployed debt-ridden graduates warning them about being ethical in how they market themselves.

Meanwhile, law schools are allowed to market themselves in the most flagrant, unethical way possible.

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The Federalist
Sep 22, 2009 12:23 PM CST

I agree completely with Anonymous Contract Lawyer. The purpose of a resume is to list the skills that are relevant to the position, not to list all one’s experience. As a result, certain experiences - and, yes, degrees - may or may not be included depending on the job. Tailoring one’s resume to a job is not necessarily “lying” or “dishonest”.

Also, leaving aside the fact that the lawyer lied about having an extra year of legal experience, I don’t see what the relevance is of whether a job was an internship or not provided the dates are correct.

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sam
Sep 22, 2009 1:50 PM CST

What rule is there about what you have to list on your resume?  I worked at 3-4 different firms when I was in college.  I don’t list them on my resume.  They don’t have anything to do with the area of law I am practicing in now.  If they ask in an interview, I tell them. 

Omitting something is not telling a lie and not a big deal - only a big deal if they ask for it and you ommit it.

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Esq.
Sep 22, 2009 3:30 PM CST

I really don’t see the problem with “failing” to mention that you were a summer clerk during one of the years you worked with a firm, provided that you worked there more than a year or two.  It’s not as though your year of graduation is not listed on your resume.  Do you have to list every single title you’ve ever held as an attorney with the company?  Or every company name change?

The one thing career counselors at my law school stressed was keeping a resume to one page, unless you have ten years of solid work experience.  I don’t see how that can be accomplished by listing every single internship or part-time position you’ve ever held.

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JEF
Sep 23, 2009 8:05 AM CST

Sounds like Deborah and Martha have to validate the fact that they have a job in this economy.  Really? How many people believe any of the things written in a resume?  My favorite story is about the Harvard admissions officer for 25 years who wrote numerous books on the subject and was then fired for lying on her resume.

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tim
Sep 23, 2009 12:46 PM CST

Last two guys our firm hired, I don’t think anyone ever saw a resume except to paper the file.  They got hired based on their qaulity of work that we saw on various transactions.

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Esq.
Sep 23, 2009 4:19 PM CST

I think career service offices are to blame for the fudging of certain dates to cover a gap in work history.  I graduated in a bad economy without a job.  It took me nine months to find a legal job, while a friend of mine found one in three months.  Both of us tutored at a local public college while looking for a job.  Five years later, my friend, who takes the word of the career counsel as gospel, still freaks out over how to “explain” the three month gap in her resume, and whether it should include the tutoring.  I refused to put the tutoring on my resume and simply tell employers that I graduated in a bad economy, and that it took me nine months (4 after the bar results) to find a job, which is technically true since I was waiting for a job in my field.

I honestly think it’s a form of classism.  Other than for purposes of a background check, I think it is really none of anyone’s business that someone had to tutor, sell shoes, or do some other odd job to pay the bills while they were between legal jobs.  People should be able to leave odd jobs off their resume, and let a prospective employer draw whatever conclusions they want.  If they assume that the applicant was well-off enough to stay home, or take a long vacation aborad, or even to just be lazy and sit on the couch, then so be it.

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Employer In MD
Sep 25, 2009 3:48 AM CST

Whether a resume is deceptive depends upon the structure of a resume and what it purports to be. If it is a chronological resume that you choose to utilize, then you are stuck with giving all of your employer’s in a chronological order. If it iis a functional resume that does not purport to list all employers and makes it clear that it is not a list of all employers then they need not all be listed. As far as leaving off a credential that makes you “over-qualified”, that is not a material misrepresentation that someone is relying upon contrary to a fake representation of a qualification which the applicant has not achieved. If someone lists offices where I have worked, then would not to make inquiry instead of an applicant listing employers without distinguishing, If an applicant listed a set of multiple employment locations and did not leave any off and gave accurate timelines, then I would know he had been working through an agency or had bad work habits and I would want to inquire. Through multiple jobs through an agency over a relative short period is possibly OK while going through 5 employers in a short period of time, would certainly make it where I would not want to be #6.

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hackneyednewenglandwoman
Sep 25, 2009 5:05 AM CST

The person JEF is probably referring to was Marilee Jones, who, according to my electronic sources, was Dean of Admissions at MIT, not Harvard.  She actually resigned in 2007 when she was found out.  She had lied about her degrees on an entry level application years     before.  One of my favorite true stories. (Citations omitted.)

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justpassingby
Sep 25, 2009 6:34 AM CST

Listing relevant experience ans also placing a note saying so on your resume, could be an option?  And just add further qualifications provided upon request.  That would be sensible and it will show that there is no intent to deceive anyone, just not enough paper to list it all!

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Older Guy
Sep 25, 2009 7:02 AM CST

What are the odds Caanan and Africa could work together? Kum-by-ya!

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Older Guy
Sep 25, 2009 7:03 AM CST

D’oh! Canaan, not Caanan! Just call me David Glasser.

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Donald
Sep 25, 2009 7:03 AM CST

I like response #3. 

Generally, on the topic, I agree with the decision not to hire when an applicant has been less than forthcoming on his/her resume.  But that’s done on a case by case basis.  I do think lumping time spent as law clerk at a firm with your time spent as an attorney at the firm is misleading.  So what if you’re graduation date is on the resume?  It’s not my job to piece it all together because you’re being clever.  Let’s not forget that the applicant is the one seeking the job and are not in a position to do anything that might compromise their chances of being hired.

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B. McLeod
Sep 25, 2009 7:22 AM CST

Many good points here.  Obviously it is bad to have a prospective employer think there is funny business going on with listed experience.  At the same time, listing things like a clerkship you had for a professor 25 years ago could tend to look pretty silly (like sticking your LSAT score on the resume).  Probably the best thing to do would be check with a contact at the prospective employer in advance, to find out what they think is relevant/irrelevant, and tailor the submission accordingly.

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pedro
Sep 25, 2009 7:52 AM CST

#9 what 5 month gap?

resume says an associate from 1999-2002 at X firm.

associate at X firm from 2002 to 2005. 

No one needs to know or cares that you were laid off for 5 months of 2002.

No one puts specific months on their resume.
Why even put the months - no one cares.

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Vir
Sep 25, 2009 8:02 AM CST

Lawyers caught lying. Nothing new here..

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DH
Sep 25, 2009 8:12 AM CST

This looks like a puff piece so these recruiters can get their names publicized.  I’ve read articles advising job seekers to tailor their resumes to the prospective job, so it should not come as a surprise that there are different resumes floating around.  Mispresentation is unethical, but there is no guidance here about the distinction between mispresentation and the crafting of a resume to suit the job.

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Bill
Sep 25, 2009 9:00 AM CST

Good lord, and lawyers wonder why everyone thinks we’re a bunch of lying, deceitful scumbags. 

Look at all of these (presumably) lawyers here, saying they don’t see anything wrong with providing misleading or deceptive information in a resume, or - even richer - saying they don’t know the difference between misrepresentation and writing a valid resume. 

If you represent a year of employment as an associate, when in fact it was a year as an intern, you are representing something as true that is not.  I.e., misrepresentation.

If you leave stuff off a resume - which is fine - just be prepared to explain the gaps, and don’t try to stretch the other experience to make it appear as if there are no gaps.  That certainly smacks of deceit.

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df
Sep 25, 2009 9:22 AM CST

As others have noted, omission is not the same as lying (there are exceptions). For instance, having an LL.M. or being a registered patent attorney or being admitted in a foreign jurisdiction are I think relevant to any legal position, and so one should always include them even if one thinks it might overqualify you or make you seem like a dilettante. By contrast, if I pursued a part-time degree in fine art or history or religious studies or something out of interest, I don’t think omission from my resume would be problematic for most jobs if I genuinely think it’s irrelevant (similarly if I couldn’t find legal work and worked as a gas station attendant, how is that relevant?). I do some volunteer work, the nature of which discloses my religious affiliation. I’ve chosen to include it on my resume in a volunteer work section, but I could understand someone feeling that privacy concerns meant it would be okay to omit it.

As lawyers, one should be able to be persuasive without being deceitful. For instance, if one worked on contract state the law firm and in parentheses or the first line underneath note e.g. “on contract” or “through agency” or whatever. My advice to someone who e.g. worked about 18 months doing document review for one law firm but spread out with some gaps over 2 years, was to list the law firm employer and 2-year range, and then in the description note that it was a series of contracts doing document review totalling 18 months within that period or something like that. Presents well in the bold heading (“Prestigious law firm 2005-2008”) but is still honest in the description. The intern example from the story, could have listed the same years and in the description noted that the first year of work was as an intern or something like that. Whether or not the recruiters liked it, it would have been honest.

I do have sympathy for those not intending to deceive employers but merely to survive the initial crude culling by recruiters, with deception. I still think it’s wrong, but I’m sympathetic based on the experiences of myself and others with recruiters’ ideas of what the employer wants not matching what the employer wants. I could give examples but then my comment would be even longer…

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Esq.
Sep 25, 2009 10:21 AM CST

@ #17:  When you’re starting your career, listing the months is more of a necessity.  For example, if you had a number of different internships that lasted for a summer or a semester, listing only the year will confuse a prospective employer.  That omission could also, incidentally, help blur the line between between intern and associate.  Or say that you have only 5 years of practice, divided between two employers.  Listing employment dates by year and month is more straightforward.  If you held one position from 12/15/01 through 1/15/03 and only write 2001-2003 on your resume, an employer may easily assume 3.0 years of employment, when it was actually closer to 2.0. 

However, I think the whole notion of a “gap” in employment is subjective.  Does a month between positions constitute a gap?  Three months?  Six Months?  Nine? I don’t really consider my time looking for a job after law school to be a “gap.”  But some employers do.  And while some calculate the length of the “gap” from the date of graduation (May), it could reasonably be calculated from September, when those with law firm offers start, or even November, when the bar results are released.  However it’s perceived, it’s laid out clear as day on my resume that there is a several month span between the date that I graduated and the first position listed on my resume.  Maybe certain employers assume that I worked somewhere and got fired?  I really have no idea.

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greg
Sep 25, 2009 10:22 AM CST

As someone currently looking for work, it’s tough. One recruiter tells you to put the months employed on a resume (and some websites require it), another tells you to leave it off. A third tells you to put your legal experience in a ‘legal experience’ section and the other stuff in an ‘other experience’ section, and a fourth tells you that’s not the way to do it. A fifth says ‘one page only’ and a sixth says ‘pages be damned’.

Meanwhile employers nitpick because it’s a buyer’s market. I’ve seen ad saying ‘candidate must be currently employed,’ or ‘candidate must not have been unemployed for more than four months’. I’ve seen very specific requirements, which I know are very rare, and it makes me wonder if the posting isn’t just a sham so the company can promote a specific person from within, while still being able to say that they advertised the position. I’ve seen jobs that were posted that morning, only to be told that they were filled a while ago, and ‘IT doesn’t take these things down timely’. I’ve listed stuff on my resume, and found it’s the stuff I’ve left off that they’re looking for - or maybe that’s just an excuse to not interview me. One friend who was hired for a non-legal position resorted to leaving off her legal background because it was preventing her from getting interviews.

I’ve had friends tell me that recruiters have told them they don’t really check messages, too. One wonders if, after you leave, the recruiter even looks back at what they have or just moves on. Kind of like buying a new screwdriver when one is out in the garage. Silly, but easier than looking for the one in the garage, I guess.

It’s frustrating, to say the least, and there are days when you think HR people are just f***ing with you because they can, and companies/firms are just like the person looking for the perfect mate.

Sorry for venting, but maybe you can see why people alter their resumes and leave stuff off. Is it wrong to leave things off? No. Is it wrong to make false claims? Yes, but in this environment, it’s understandable why someone would. No one wants to be poor & homeless, and you do what you have to do. Jean Valjean, right?

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Sustenance
Sep 25, 2009 1:54 PM CST

Claiming to have skills and experiences you don’t have is clearly a case of fraud. Stating that you worked for an employer you never worked for is clearly a case of fraud. Claiming to have worked for 10 years when you were lying on the couch living off of your parents is clearly a case of fraud.

But if you changed the dates of your employment to shorten the gaps of unemployment, so what? When I was unemployed for four months, I did stretch out the term of my previous employment by four months to cover the gap - big deal.

Also when I was unemployed for about a year (this was years later) I moved furniture, worked as a waiter, did some legal temp work and helped some relatives with a few legal issues. The agency told me not to mention the moving and waiting jobs and I agreed. They told me to put down the legal temp work and that I was self-employed with a few clients. What was wrong with that? If I told the truth, I would never get another job in the law field. Who would hire a lawyer who mostly moved furniture and waited on tables for a year? What was I supposed to do - tell the truth and then work at dead-end manual jobs for the rest of my life wasting my law degree just because I was laid off from my true profession? I am a good lawyer with a lot of skills and years of experience. I was facing some hardship - so what if I fudged a little.

In these tough economic times, employers should get off their high horses. After all, they might lose their jobs soon and find themselves working as a cashier at a convenience store just to survive.

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df
Sep 25, 2009 2:21 PM CST

I was with #24 until the date-changing. That’s lying. If you actually stated, to cover a four-month gap e.g. “Jan. 2008 to Dec. 2009” when you only worked Mar. 2008 to Oct. 2009, that’s clearly lying. For anyone to claim otherwise is the sort of ridiculous self-serving justification that leads even IP lawyers to download movies from torrent (“I’m too busy to go to the theatre, so they’re not losing any money…”).

By contrast, if someone graduation in 2006 and didn’t find work until 2007 I don’t think they need to specify “May 2006” graduation, “2006” is fine. If you worked Mar. 2008 to Oct. 2009 and your resume said “2008-2009” I think that’s fine (though if it were me I’d probably refer to a 20-month contract or something in the description). If you worked Dec. 2008 to Jan. 2009 and your resume says “2008-2009” I think the job description better make clear it was a few months or yes, you are lying.

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Adamius
Sep 25, 2009 8:07 PM CST

“It’s not a lie if YOU believe it.” - G. Costanza

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Sustenance
Sep 25, 2009 9:55 PM CST

Oh, get off your high horse #25. So what if I lied about a 4-month unemployment gap in order to get a job? Who did it hurt? The law firm that finally hired me? I was more than qualified for the job. I worked long hours for them and brought in plenty of billable hours as well. Why do they need to know that I was unemployed for 4 months anyway?

At the time, I had two small kids and a cancer-stricken mother with no health insurance. I needed a job desperately. A person who sacrifices the health and welfare of their loved ones in order to be “perfectly honest” is more sick than a person who tells a victimless lie in order to save their loved ones.

And when you consider the recent corporate and legal scandals plus the taxpayer bailouts for negligent and even fraudulent corporate behavior, a small lie about an unemployment gap is nothing.

Should I have told the truth and risk being unemployed for a longer period of time - leading to welfare and possibly homelessness? Would you have respected me more? Not likely.

There are so many people suffering now in these tough economic times. Show some compassion.

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df
Sep 28, 2009 1:50 AM CST

#25 again. #24/27, given that you called some resume lies “fraud” you’re hardly in a position to hypocritically accuse me of being on a high horse.

Your motivation for telling a lie might earn sympathy (it does), but it doesn’t make the lie any less of a lie. By your reasoning, anyone needing a job as much or more than you would be entitled to lie about other stuff too like employers, experience, skills, etc. despite your having called such “fraud”. Indeed, by lying (if you did, as noted e.g. “2007-2008” is not necessarily problematic) you did in fact run a risk, that is still present, you might still be fired for lying in your application at some point in the future. Whereas if you’d been truthful you probably would have got the job anyway and not had that worry.

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crabapples
Sep 28, 2009 8:48 AM CST

If he had been truthful, he would have gotten the job?  What planet are you living on?  The job market is glutted beyond belief thanks in part to the fraud of the law school, NALP, and the ABA.  If the resume is not cookie cutter perfect, you aren’t getting any job.  I respect 27 for trying to feed his kids and support his cancer stricken mother.  Anyone who is completely honest and plays by the rules gets totally screwed over in this cesspool of a profession.  That’s just the way it is.

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wonk
Sep 28, 2009 9:24 AM CST

Sometimes I put in a 3-month stint at a firm between when I clerked and took a government position, and sometimes I don’t include it.  Well, for all my government applications, I do include it, but that’s more because I think the government keeps track of this stuff.  I took the job because I needed to pay the bills.  My reason for omitting this 3-month period is that, as most of us probably know, it’s really tough to do anything substantive in 3-months when you’re that early in your career.  Other than being a legal position, this particular one is not relevant to the area of law that I practice, and Including that position was taking up space on the page that I could use for something else.  If prospective employers ask me about the gap, I tell them what I did, and that this particular firm offered me a position if my then-new job didn’t work out.  Unlike #24, though, all my dates are truthful.

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mak70
Sep 28, 2009 11:46 AM CST

Just another excuse NOT to hire attorneys…

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Esq.
Sep 28, 2009 12:42 PM CST

Why is a 3-4 month span between jobs considered such a big deal anyway?  Is one not allowed a break to travel, regroup or simply veg out in their 35 year career?  It’s no wonder that there is so much stress and burnout in this profession.

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Sustenance
Sep 28, 2009 2:05 PM CST

#25/#28 Did you read my original post (#24) carefully? If you claim to have skills and experiences that you don’t, that is clearly a case of fraud and that could hurt the employer that eventually hires you.

For example, if you claim to have years of practicing bankruptcy law when the truth is you never practiced bankruptcy law in your life, that is clearly fraud and the law firm that hires you could suffer as a result of your inexperience.

I wasn’t lying about the skills and experiences that I possessed. I was more than qualified for the job (in fact, I was way overqualified and the job paid much less than my previous job did). I just didn’t tell them that I was unemployed for four months. That wouldn’t hurt them in any way as it does not take away from the skills and experiences I have to offer them.

Many years ago (because I am an old fart and quite proud of it), employers used to ask applicants if they were married and/or had children. Employers wouldn’t hire or promote men or women who had children because they felt they would be too distracted with family issues. Eventually, thanks to feminist groups, the law prohibited these types of questions but before the law was changed men and women who had children lied and said that they didn’t have children. Women usually lied more because they were more likely to suffer if they told the truth.

The point is, employers don’t have to know every single detail about you as long as those details do not affect your work performance. So what if you are married with children? So what if you were unemployed for a while? Why should you lose a potential job just because you are a parent or were unemployed for a while?

As Jackie Mason once stated, “Is it lying if you are lying to a question the person had no business to ask in the first place?”

And besides, “honesty” is different from “truthful.” Honesty means telling the truth with good intentions. Telling an ugly person that s/he is ugly is truthful but it is not honest because you did it to hurt the person, not to help them. If I were truthful about my unemployment gap, I would have hurt myself, my children and my sick mother, who passed away nearly 40 years ago, God bless her.

So quit being such a stickler for the truth.

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B. McLeod
Sep 29, 2009 2:12 AM CST

Ah, moral relativism.  Ah, rationalization.  Maybe “Sustenance” went to a Jesuit school?  “For the greater glory of lying through your teeth to get what your masters want”?

God bless the grass, that grows through the stone.  God bless the truth, the friend of the poor.  (And, God bless England).  Yeah.  (And a comment I can’t make about a certain Order, because the Moderator would remove it, but you know who you are).

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Sustenance
Sep 29, 2009 2:49 AM CST

#34 (B. McLeod) No, I never went to a Jesuit school. All of my education was received in public schools. In fact, I was the first in my family to graduate from elementary school let alone college and law school.

I suppose when a law firm partner or manager sits in her/his cushy office chair, s/he can speak of moral relativism and rationalization. S/he can also decide to deny a job to someone who is qualified but who omitted a 4-month unemployment gap on their resume.

But maybe this law firm partner or manager can look beyond the gilded boundaries of her/his own life to realize that not everyone has it so easy and that compassion, understanding and sympathy might be better words to live by than simply the strict truth.

After all, surely that law firm partner or manager realizes that we are all subject to forces beyond our control and that one day s/he may wind up having to cover up a 4-month or longer unemployment gap in order to get a job.

In my many years on this planet, I have seen people rise to the top from the bottom and fall from the top to the bottom. I am sure many have witnessed this too. Yep, bad things happen to good people. And if it takes a lie or two to pull yourself out of the pit you may have fallen into, then so be it.

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df
Sep 29, 2009 10:27 AM CST

#25/28 again, the issue is NOT concealing the 4 months unemployment, that’s fine (functional resume, years not months in a chronological resume unless a gross distortion, whatever).

The issue is lying about the time spent practicing law by 4 months to cover the gap. THAT is the lie that is relevant to a material issue (how much experience you have in the field).

If seeking admission in another jurisdiction that requires e.g. 5 years experience, will you lie to get a job there because you really need the money for good reasons and you’re only short 4 months for the job that is starting now?

As for the comment about Jesuits, if I recall correctly there has been some thought/analysis as to whether it’s morally culpable lying if it is in response to a question which has no business being asked, e.g. an impertinent question.

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Sustenance
Sep 29, 2009 1:03 PM CST

#36 df. When you have many years of experience as I do, I don’t think a 4-month unemployment gap makes a difference whether you are applying for a job or seeking admission in another jurisdiction. That was the point of my posts.

If an employer hires someone who lied about a 4-month unemployment gap but has well over 10 years of experience, works for the employer for a couple of years and does a great job - do you honestly believe that the employer has the right to fire that person because the employer found out about the 4-month unemployment gap?

You know, even the law recognizes different levels of crime - murder 1, murder 2, manslaughter 1, manslaughter 2, as well as the doctrines of self-defense and insanity (which of course vary from state to state). Sentencing differs based on the nature and circumstances of the crime. We don’t have one charge of murder where everyone gets the same exact sentence regardless of the circumstances.

Enlightened individuals in an enlightened society analyze the circumstances of every case and make decisions based on those circumstances. You can’t just go through life with one way of handling every single situation. According to this article, too many employers may simply fire someone because they may have lied about something that may not be that material even if they are good employees. Is that fair?

Well, if you judge people too harshly, maybe you will fall under the harsh judgment of someone should the circumstances in your life change.

If you can’t provide understanding, compassion and sympathy for others then you have no right to ask it of others.

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df
Sep 30, 2009 6:56 AM CST

#37 Sustenance, I have sympathy, compassion and understanding. I just don’t particularly like hypocrisy. You’re not seeking sympathy for having done something wrong under extenuating circumstances (which I would have), you’re seeking approval and endorsement of your behaviour. Because I think your behaviour was wrong, you attack me. Do I agree that on the spectrum of resume lies this is less serious than most? Yes. Does that mean I think it’s acceptable? No.

If you are actually a lawyer with over 10 years experience, why you would lie about how long you’d worked for a particular employer to cover a mere 4-month gap boggles the mind. How are you worthy of the trust required for a fiduciary relationship (I mean with clients, not your employer) if you lie so casually?

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Sustenance
Sep 30, 2009 8:34 AM CST

df #37. You lie about a 4-month gap because you know that if you tell someone that you were unemployed for 4 months, they probably won’t hire you. Everyone knows that you have a better chance of finding a job when you are currently employed. This has been the case for years and years and it’s even more so nowadays.

And you attacked me for my response to an article that discusses how employers simply fire employees for resume gaps. I simply responded to your attack. Don’t you like discussion and debate? Or do you just want to be right and have the last word all the time?

I told the truth about how I feel about employers who fire employees who lie about small resume gaps when it’s not that relevant. As someone who seems to want the truth all the time, why are you offended? Or do you only want the truth as you see it?

And you say that you don’t like hypocrisy but then in the next sentence you stated that under the same extenuating circumstances you would have done what I did too. Now who is the hypocrite? You would have done what I did under the same extenuating circumstances but I am the hypocrite?

I am not seeking approval and endorsement for anything. I am seeking understanding and compassion for people who may be desperate to find a job. You actually seem to agree with me but you just don’t want to admit it. Lies that are irrelevant (such as a 4-month unemployment gap or whether a person has children as I discussed in previous posts) are irrelevant so why fire someone because of them?

How am I worthy of a fiduciary trust with clients? Because I don’t judge harshly the way you seem to do. Because they know I have compassion and understanding. You are uncompromising and judgmental and that kind of behavior only encourages lies from the people who have to deal with you - if they choose to deal with you at all.

Besides, I’ll bet you anything that in your life you have lied too - you just won’t admit it. Those who push the truth all the time often hide the biggest lies - lies that actually hurt people.

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Texas Law
Sep 30, 2009 4:50 PM CST

“df” @ #38:  I don’t believe that “Sustenance” did lie casually; he stated that his action occured while his mother was alive, and then later stated that his mother had been dead almost 40 years.  To be re-visiting an event that occured so long ago indicates that the action was not taken lightly and was taken with much forethought.  Apparently, there has been much after thought as well.

“Sustenance”: My advice is to not only recognize that you did what you felt you had to do at the time to provide for your family (viz, Jean Valjean - a prior reference); but, to also ignore those who would question your basic honesty and trustworthiness.

At #34, Mr. McLeod, you appear to very well know that AMDG, Ad Majorm Dei Gloriam, means “to the Greater Glory of God”.  Sorry that your Jesuit education left you bitter and unhappy, or is it that you didn’t receive a Jesuit education?

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