Question of the Week
How Are You Keeping Yourself and Others From Despairing?
Posted Mar 25, 2009 3:59 PM CST
By Molly McDonough
Even with encouraging news from the Dow early this week, there is economic bad news all around.
And the long and the short of it is, workers are scared. Maybe that's why our attention was drawn to an e-mail this week promoting ways to look forward and to keep morale from tanking.
According to Bill Treasurer, a management expert and author of Courage Goes to Work: How to Build Backbones, Boost Performance, and Get Results, managers can do six things to be a good boss in bad times:
Be ubiquitous. Now is the time to be visible—not invisible. Instead of holing up in your office—a real temptation in tough times—be "out there" for your employees. They need your guidance and direction more than ever, so be fully present and offer it to them.
Be steady. As pressures mount in your own work, take a deep breath and try to be a little more cool, calm, and collected yourself. It may be easier said than done, but it's a fact that people choose to follow level-headed, even-handed leaders.
Be straight. In good times and bad, workers want—and deserve—the truth. Avoid tiptoeing around tough issues and give it to them straight—no spinning or sugarcoating. And to reign in the predictable and pernicious gossip, hold regular "rumor hunts"—ongoing meetings where employees can air the latest rumors and hear the facts directly from you.
Be focused. Right now it's easy to give in to distractions—taking your eyes off the ball and letting people and projects fall by the wayside. Don't. Keep people laser-focused on what needs to be done—key priorities for the foreseeable future—and, at least for now, have daily status calls or check-ins.
Be gutsy. Fear can play to your base nature. Commit to rising above it and elevating yourself and your team. Stop talking to employees about what keeps you awake at night, and start acting on what gets you up in the morning—the results you can make happen together.
Be hopeful. If there was ever a need for a can-do spirit, it is now. No downplaying the economy or giving false reassurances, but choosing optimism over pessimism, encouragement over discouragement. Start by walking the talk—making it clear, with words and actions, that as difficult as things are right now, the team is better off dealing with what "is" and facing the challenges head-on with hope and determination.
Treasurer's tips and this piece from Patrick McKenna, "Keeping Morale Up in a Downturn," (PDF) got us wondering what you or your boss is doing to improve morale and help you look forward.
So tell us in the comments ... How are you keeping yourself from despair and staying positive?
There were not enough answers to last week's question, "Are You Lost in March Madness?" to pick an answer of the week.
Last updated March 26 to add the Patrick McKenna link.

Comments
B. McLeod
Mar 25, 2009 6:05 PM CST
Chiefly by maintaining an attitude of good humor, and acting like I am confident and have a plan. To a degree, it is even true. I have cut back on frivolous expenditures a bit, bumped up charitable contributions a bit, and concentrated on getting work done properly and on time. Also, when I run into people who need relief help (which thankfully has not included anyone in my office thus far), I know where to send them to find help from the charities and social agencies that assist with food, clothing and shelter. As yet, things are not really too bad, and if the economy actually starts to come back in 2010, as some are predicting, I think most people may come through mostly OK. (Perhaps a little worn, and with some valuable lessons learned about planning their personal finances).
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Debra Veoli
Mar 26, 2009 5:31 AM CST
I learn to LAUGH about funny things, and am sad about sad things.
I learned in Law School, from Professor Monahan that an item was admittable into EVIDENCE only if its probative value outweighted its prejudicial effect.
I finally figured out, after 3 years, what he was talkiing about. Now I know that like everything else, you do what you have to do, and you don’t do what you don’t have to do.
I also learned not to be prejudicial, and always to ask questions if I am not sure of anything.
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Steve Perkins
Mar 27, 2009 6:23 AM CST
Well, I stopped reading these ABA Journal weekly newsletters with the same regularity as before. Most of the articles are always about layoffs at some BigLaw firm that wasn’t going to hire 90% of us anyway, or cheap populist articles about how much money partners make. You’ve read one issue, you’ve read them all… and while I obviously haven’t walked away completely, it’s just not the most healthy way to spend your time.
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A. Cerra
Mar 27, 2009 7:52 AM CST
I work in the public interest field, and I try to follow my clients’ example. Nearly all of them faced cutbacks, joblessness, and poverty long before the recession started. Yet they continue to raise families, to fight for better conditions, to stand up for their rights. They know how to survive when the chips are down. If they aren’t despairing, why should I?
I am also hopeful that the extreme cutbacks to public defenders’ offices and other public interest agencies will highlight both how necessary and how underfunded such agencies are. If something good comes out of these tough times, perhaps it will be a greater awareness of poverty issues and the important service poverty law professionals provide.
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Ben
Mar 27, 2009 8:18 AM CST
I just focus on the work, keep the conversations light, and address the bad news with the same objective clarity that I would address anybody else’s problems. I find that lawyers and other advisors sometimes have a hard time taking their own advice. At a certain point you have to relax, put it aside, and enjoy your family and the people you care about.
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SD
Mar 27, 2009 8:33 AM CST
I just started to seeing a counselor who has reminded me how tough I am. If I can deliver a baby without any pain meds, I can get through anything!
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Guy_Incognito
Mar 27, 2009 9:14 AM CST
Going to work every day.
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Kalifornia arnold
Mar 27, 2009 9:20 AM CST
By kissing my paycheck every 2 weeks and being grateful I have a job—Also, humor is vital to survival—If. every morning when I arise, i am breathing, above ground and NOT in the Obituaries, then it is going to be a GOOD DAY.
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jackcatscal
Mar 27, 2009 9:20 AM CST
“Despair is the price one pays for setting oneself an impossible aim. It is, one is told, the unforgivable sin, but it is a sin the corrupt or evil man never practices. He always has hope. He never reaches the freezing-point of knowing absolute failure.”—Graham Greene
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Dave Ewert
Mar 27, 2009 9:25 AM CST
I stopped circulating your newsletter with its downer fixation on mega firm cutbacks.
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B. McLeod
Mar 27, 2009 9:52 AM CST
I think any fixation on mega firm cutbacks is an “upper.” As I look around, I can always say to myself, “at least I’m not in the spot those Big Law castaways are.” It really does give one cause to feel thankful.
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CaliGirl
Mar 27, 2009 11:11 AM CST
Same way I got through the stresses of law school—I go to hockey games and scream my lungs out. With NHL playoffs coming up, there will be opportunities to scream and yell at the television, too. Between games, I go out with friends who understand we’re all lucky to have jobs right now, and we prop each other up when the times get tough. When it gets too bad, I just declare it PMS (whether it is or not) and move on. I can only control what I can, and I have to ride the waves of what I can’t.
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EllGee in NH
Mar 27, 2009 4:22 PM CST
To paraphrase (and probably poorly) - Despair! We don’t need no stinkin’ despair! - Unless we get de flat! Then I hope de spare is in de trunk.
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Diana
Mar 27, 2009 4:29 PM CST
I am a solo employment lawyer. My clients are those that have been terminated, with either discrimination issues or with problems getting unemployment benefits. For me it is not just keeping my spirits up, it is finding a way to help these people without bankrupting my firm. I offer free initial consultations, use flat fee billing instead of hourly, try to provide suggestions of open jobs , and help them get some self esteem back While its tough for me to hear all the sadness, at the end of the day I can go home but my clients may not even have a home to go to.
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bg
Mar 27, 2009 6:49 PM CST
I keep my spirits up by not working for BigLaw in the first place. As a result, I am not cowering in my office, wondering when the axe will fall. I am no worse off than I was a year, or even two years, ago. The only way I will lose my job is the old fashioned way - if I do something deserving of firing. So I do my work, then come home and work on remodeling my house. My biggest concerns at the moment are how much money I am going to spend [and lose] on my vacation in Vegas next week, how much money I am going to lose gambling, wondering when my new furnace is going to be installed, and wondering how much of my garden survived the winter.
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Kalifornia Arnold
Mar 28, 2009 3:50 PM CST
#13—Very well put—After you get de spare out of de trunk, it’s time to retire (wheel go over that later—does that last comment of mine deserve a rim shot?)—As for any other tire(d) puns, I’ll spare you (we are just going round and round on this subject)
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B. McLeod
Mar 28, 2009 8:55 PM CST
Och. No need to retread that further.
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Kalifornia Arnold
Apr 3, 2009 9:27 AM CST
#17—I was side walled by your comment
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Larry
Apr 3, 2009 2:17 PM CST
Only someone who is retired can appreciate all these puns. Me? I’m getting car sick.
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Kalifornia Arnold
Apr 3, 2009 6:30 PM CST
All these car puns serve a fulfilling purpose—when my civic was in the shop, i missed it like crazy (thus bringing to mind the old saying: “Absence makes the heart grow HONDA”)
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